Chastity contract

Any form of chastity contract should be very clear and easy to understand by all parties and must include information on what to do in an emergency or in the event of disagreement between both parties. The contract should include details about how and when the keys will be returned at the end of the contract period and what constitutes an acceptable reason for removing (or asking for permission to remove) the device (i.e. health and maintenance, pain, medical appointments, air travel).

The contract should include both the user’s and the keyholder’s hard limits which must be respected throughout. If at any point in drawing up the contract the following are observed, I strongly suggest suspending negotiations until these concerns are resolved to the satisfaction of all parties.
Cause for concern

Not being let out of chastity for regular cleaning (at least once per week, ideally more depending on the device).

No access to any key. It is essential that both the user and keyholder are in possession of a spare key for emergencies. There are many ways to ensure the user does not access the key without permission, such as: a timed safe, coded lock box, disposable numbered lock or wrapping the key box in tape sealed with the keyholder’s signature/choice of drawing.

Being forced to wear a chastity cage that is the incorrect size or shape.

Anything which interferes with work or family duties or that may be detrimental to professional or public appearance.

Ambiguous contract end date or conditions.

Unclear method of communication between user and keyholder, especially in emergency situations.

It is advisable to discuss any concerns with your keyholder prior to signing the contract and before any device is fitted. If your keyholder will not be in regular in-person communication (such as a cohabiting partner) then discussing expectations around the amount and type of communication is especially important.

Many people in chastity will not have the luxury of their keyholder being present every time the device is removed for cleaning so knowing how to behave in these situations is also important. Keyholders may wish to establish their own protocols for bathing/showering, such as a video call or livestream service so that the user can be supervised.